Unexpected happened

Hello, dear friends! Something happened today and it started many years ago. It might sound weird, but I had a stalker. He stocked me everywhere, at the streets, in the Internet. One day, when I was in college, he came to my home, my parents did not know who he is, so they let him in, he saw my room, touched my cat and brought some cursed object, an iron rose which he made himself. Do not get me wrong, rose was beautiful, but I know he has a witch friend, she helps him a lot. He is mentally ill, I have heard he been to facility before.

Once I met my old friend, apparently she knows him too and with the same reason, he stocked her before, well, he beat her up so bad, that she was at the hospital. So, it did not work his way, so he found another victim, me.

At that time I had a boyfriend, who lived in Kyiv, he decided to visit Odessa. I got ready and went to meet him in at the train station, but surprise, traffic…

At the time I came, Alex was in a weird mood, we were talking and he started to ask weird question, like if I seeing someone else and if I am serious about us. That`s weird…

After I found our, that that stalker came to see him before me and told him some nasty stories, damn, he had imagination. I even did not know I done all of these things…you know, even in my dreams I would not even think to do those…As you understood already, he created some story in his head that me are getting marry, dating and Alex is third, who has to leave. Well, that`s weird…

Another strange thing, how did stalker knew I am running late? How did he knew Alex coming to Odessa and in general that I had boyfriend at that time and what time we should meet? Well, after I found out, that he broke into my account in vk.com, which I no longer have. Also he found me on Facebook, knew my phone number, my address, which I never gave him. He was spreading lies about me and so stupid lies like people around are dumb and do not pay attention to what he saying. It was so obvious that he was not telling the truth.

He kept stalking me for years, I do not know, how I manage to get rid of him, but one day it stopped. No calls from different numbers, no messages from new accounts in the Internet. I was relived.

I started a new life. I forgot about this crap and started to trust people a little more.

So, why am I talking about that? Yesterday evening I have got a message on Facebook, of course, I noticed it only now. There was only “Good evening” and a name, I really forgot it is his name, I just live now without thinking about bad moments, so, why I would think about stalker in so many years. In my opinion, past about 10 years, maybe more. So, I could not see, who he is, I answered “Good morning”, I really thought it might be one of my followers, it is not good, not to answer, right? He wrote that I need to add him to my friend list, what was weird…I asked if we know each other, he said, that we do…

Ok, I go to his profile and I see that face….Why I did not go to his profile before, why I answered?????????? It is him, a stalker, who was destroying my life, my work, my relationships, my mental health….

I blocked him immediately, but now I am scared that he gonna start over, that he will find my blogs, my Instagram, my other accounts… I hope he will not come to my home, it is same place, where I always been, when I was in Odessa.

So, my dear friends, if I will no longer have Facebook, you will know why, if he will stalk me again, I will have to delete it. I will change my name everywhere, so, stay with me for updates.

Wish me good luck!

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Published by nadiiag

Hi, my name is Nadiia. I am from Ukraine. I cannot live without sport, healthy food, art and just interesting things. Of course I love to share it) I have tried many things, I wish to try more and more, it never stops) I have so many interests that I am going crazy already) I sewing underwear, do some paintings and other handmade, love cooking and eating that! Of course, I enjoy if my information and my creations are useful to someone.

40 thoughts on “Unexpected happened

  1. How awful!!! This sounds a most unsettling experience. Block all accounts and programme the number of a friend or the local police station into your mobile phone. Stay alert and I hope it was a one time thing. Stay safe!

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    1. Thank you for your reply, here police do not help much, normaly they wait when somebody already killed or robbed and so on, they will tell me that it is just talk in the Internet, there is no crime…

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  2. Wish you good luck! A stalker is not a joke. I had one also and she contacted my friends unsing facebook. For her it was something about blackmailing and controll. But I got rid of her. Wish you the same!

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    1. He was texting to my friends too, he was sending death threads to me and my ex. That`s why I closed all my friends in facebook, I closed my accounts, so only friends can see what I post. But he broke my accounts every week before, I changed password now, just in case. Will see. I am glad that you are ok now. Stay safe.

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      1. Yes, you are right. I wrote in Turkish language because I though you can read with google translate. I said, please dont be afraid, Δ±t will be all right. πŸ₯°πŸ™

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      1. Dogs are very good for security purposes. A girl (16) in my neighbourhood feeds all the stray dogs living on the street. And consequently, whenever she gets out of home more than 10 dogs gather around her. Not even the biggest gangsters dare to look at her. πŸ˜‚

        1 year of stalking is too much. Don’t you think you should take an action now? Police will never until you make them do so. May be contact a local feminist group.

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      2. Well, actually i despise modern-feminism more than anyone i’ve ever met or talked to. (The feminism that Olympe de Gouges started during French Revolution is “feminism” for me). I hated them more than anything some years ago but now i just feel sorry for them because they don’t look mentally-stable to me.

        But modern-feminism right now is a force to reckoned with. Even garbage can be used for our benefit when done wisely. That was my suggestion. You’re not joining them but you know that they can easily bail you out of this situation.

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      3. I never say anti-modern-feminist things on internet because some years later, i can tell for sure, having done so will land me in all sorts of trouble. πŸ˜‚

        The situation will be the same as setting-up a protest against govt. in China. If things get that bad, i’m sure it will, i have a plan. And i’m not writing it here ofcourse. πŸ˜‚

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      4. Modern feminism? You mean ladies who do not shave, spread hate towards all men and only lesbian accepted? Noooo, I do not hate men

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      5. Ahhh…i’m having trouble understanding your comment. In any case, i name it modern-feminism because they promote gender inequality which is exactly the opposite to what they claim. They want to have additional rights and power for their purposes. Most of their activism happens to be on social media and they do not ever care to even talk about the women who are actually being oppressed in some parts of the world.

        Anyways, have a nice day.

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